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I realize that all I have to go on is what you have posted but - his behavior does not sound like that of a secure, mature man with your best interests at heart.
It would really be a deal breaker for him if you joined a sorority? Think about that for a minute. Everything you say he sees in you he would throw over if you joined an organization. Were the organization Hitler Youth, the Council to Dropkick Puppies or the KKK - I'd understand. But a sorority? Really?
And it sounds like he has isolated you from other possible friends and support people - that is actually an abusive behavior. 5 years is a long time - especially to still just be a boyfriend. Is he in this for the long haul, come what may, or just as long as it easy for him? He says it will create "problems" - if so, it must be because HE will make it a problem.
Think long and hard about whether or not this guy really loves YOU and wants what is best for YOU - or if he wants what is easiest for him.
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