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No offense but he sounds like he is being a bit selfish. This is clearly something that you really want to do because you've had such serious discussions with him about it. And, I mean, you've also been researching it since high school, so it's been on your mind for a while. If he really cares for you he would understand that this is something you really want, and should support you. Just because he doesn't like it doesn't mean he is going to get his way about it. This is ultimately YOUR decision, and I really think you should follow your heart. I know you're scared about upsetting him, but if you relationship with him is meant to be, you will get through this. If he's really going to be so stubborn about it, I really suggest you re-evaluate your relationship. Please, don't let a guy, who you might not be involved with in the future, stop you from doing something now. If you're not together down the road, you're going to have to deal with "what-if" for the rest of your life.
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