As this is a public board, one can post; however, if sentiments are not applicable then why respond?
The purpose of the thread is to get some dialogue going. Instead of evading the issue, bring it to the light and DISCUSS.
SFs in training
, I hope you realize that what has gone on this week among members of the BGLO is REAL. There are imperfections among MEMBERS of ALL of our organizations. Please do not let the actions of a few deter you from what you want, it's not all negative and nasty. Remember to take the high road and never stoop to the levels of those who seek to steal your joy. Regardless of your choices, ensure that YOU remain the best YOU that YOU can be. Whatever your decisions are, hold on to them. Always voice your concern, never let another ONE serve as your sounding board or speak for you. You have your OWN voice, USE IT! You are ONLY accountable to one person, and it isn't a mortal woMAN. In the end, you will be able to look yourself in the mirror and like what you see. 
THE END!
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