[Happydaysf91]

I have to agree with my Greek sister....I really don't think the process is the sole reason for someone's committment. I think that these individuals are 'born'.

I guess my question was dealing with the great debate that has been lingering for the last 12 years in BGLO. (My fellow greeks know what I'm talking about). The people that are 'born' XYZ....will alway stay committed. The steps taken to get there...gives you many precious memories (I know that there are ones I won't forget) and it builds a bond between you and your line sisters (but this is not always the case -- I can speak for sororities only).

So in sum...As long as you are committed and financial..you are alright with me. (Before some smarty pants tries to misconstrue my words....if you are not financial you are alright as well, just don't try to impress me with how long you were on-line and what you had to do...Although I do admire your tenancity and strength .....what have you done lately?) Just my .08 cent!

I think BeeJae and Ladygreek said it best on Delta Avenue!