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Even if they do "surprise" her, and believe me, if they tell them or not, it's never really 100% a surprise, she can bail right up until they walk into the initiation room.
Unfortunately, although it is hazing, it's fairly common that new members don't know the date of their initiation. Active members think it "takes the fun" out of being a new member.
Here's a good clue that initiation is coming soon: New member educator says that the new members need a VERY specific outfit (coming all the way down to type of shoes, length of hem, etc), and that it's due by X day. Chapters try to get that stuff taken care of a couple of weeks before initiation.
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