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Old 09-09-2008, 10:30 PM
KSUViolet06 KSUViolet06 is offline
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No, she cannot "switch places" with a girl in this other sorority.

She can depledge, but she'd have to wait a year to rush again.

My advice would be for her to relax and ignore those girls. Sometimes, girls in other chapters get a little worked up when girls they kind of wanted join a different chapter, but it all dies down. In a few weeks, they'll forget all about it.

In the meantime, I always tell girls that the sorority that you got a bid to is one that WANTS YOU and wants to get to know you. You accepted their bid, and you need to give them a fair shot. This other sorority didn't end up giving you a bid, so why give them this attention and be concerned about them? If they wanted you so much, you would have gotten a bid there.

This is a little harsh, but true.

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