[proudmomma]

The best thing you can do at this point is encourage your daughter to relax and take the time to get to know her new sisters. My daughter just went through a similar experience made even more stressful since her choices included the sorority I was a member of at the same school! She was so confused up to the last minute between my sorority and the one she ultimately chose to pledge. She too questioned her decision for a variety of reasons including what many perceived as inappropriate guidance from her rush advisor. She truly made her decision at the last second and it was totally opposite of what she had thought she was going to do when she went to prefs. Now... several weeks later she is finally sounding comfortable with her decision and sounds like she knows she has found a good fit for her. The whole rush experience can be so confusing for these girls in the end. Hopefully she will give herself time to relax and find that she truly did make the right decision. Good luck