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Old 09-09-2008, 11:55 AM
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Originally Posted by lakemom View Post
when I asked her if she led them on, she said well you almost have to some, because she had gotten advice from an aunt that she should NEVER let a chapter know that she is struggling or torn about a choice. Is that wrong?
Right: "I really love being here. I would love to be your sister."

Wrong/leading sororities on: "I can't see myself anywhere else, I am going to suicide you on my bid card, I have wanted to be part of XYZ since I was born, if I get another sorority I'll drop out."

It's like dating, even if you like the guy a lot you don't say HOW much...and you don't tell him you like him just so he buys you stuff.
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