[loveinxi]

well obviously girls who are not members see the ceremony and can tell anyone anything about it but we still dont really over share it I guess. I dont know. Its somewhat ritual plus we break down really fast after to take everything over for bid day so its not really picture time. Its also like super stressful right before pref cause we are waiting on lists and such. We just dont do it. I dont know...maybe to leave an element of surprise for pnms...