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I can't really say exactly how many sororities are on my campus because it would be a dead give away to the school I attend and I still want to keep that private but just know that it way more than 7 are there..and it really sucks that's all the parties overlap because I'm sure that I probably did miss out on meeting some great girls form other great chapters....so here's an update
Foo Fighters- i loved them just as much as I did the first time that I visited. I met two more girls and the conversations were very easy going and the girls were really laid back and I liked that I never met the same girl twice. By that I mean each one had a different personality and Foo Fighters ment different things to each of them and some were heavily involved while others weren't. I also didn't feel like I had to present myself a certain way around them, like I got the vibe that if I were to hang out with them without makeup and in my pj's I wouldn't be judged and I really like that. I really think I made a connection with Foo Fighters. Hopefully they felt the same..next round is invite only so time will tell
Fall Out Boy- Once again nothing really stood out to me about Fall Out Boy that made me say "this is it.. i can see myself here".. the conversation was very basic even though we tried to find things that we had in common.. it just wasn't flowing. I'm not too sure that I can see myself here.. the girls are great and I can tell that Fall Out Boy means alot to them but at the end of the day I really can't see myself here. I didn't get invited back so obviously they felt the same way.
Stone Temple Pilots- The conversation here was pretty nice, it wasn't as great as the last time I was there but thats understandable because I wasn't talking to the same person. From the girls I've interacted with it seems like partying is pretty big here.. like at one point I kind of felt like I was boring her since she kept asking me if I go to the frat parties and whether or not I tailgate. I thought that I could see myself here but I'm not too sure. I didn't get invited back here either so I guess they were sure lol.
SlipKnot- I actually missed the first event because of the weather but I was able to attend another one and the girl I talked to was pretty awesome. She was very sweet and we had alot of things in common. Time went by really fast talking to her but I can't see myself here either. Some parts of my personality would fit in here but I don't think I could fit in here 100%. Maybe not attending the first event did end up hurting me.. either way no invite here.
Three Doors Down- I'm happy I gave this place a second chance because I was able to see that this house isn't the right one for me. Like I know that when there's a group of women there are always going to be cliques but at the same time you would think that at recruitment it wouldn't be obvious. I was able to pick up on the weird looks some girls gave each other and it was really akward. Also, while on the house tour sisters would pass and not even speak.. that's a little weird.
Hoobastank- The conversation was MUCH better here and I really liked it. Like I'm surprised myself but I could actually see myself here. The girls are soo laid back, and eay to talk to and just really nice. I was actually talking to 4 people at a time... at first I thought it would be intimidating but it was really kool and I really enjoyed it. I got an invite back. I really enjoyed that event too, I was finally able to see the house and it's beautiful and i'm not saying that it's beautiful because it's one of the largest houses.. to me it's beautiful because it has that cozy/ warm and inviting feel to it. Again I ended up talking to a large amount of girls.. I think the least amount I talked to at a time was 2 but I loved it and it totallly felt natural. Did i already mention that I could totally see myself here?!?!?! I got invited back again so i'm sooo excited.
It's amazing how I came into this thinking that I would have a hard time looking at 7 houses because i thought that I would love and want to join them all. But then I quickly realized that you GC'ers are soo right when you say that you know where fit.. and you end up where you belong. In the span of a few days I went from considering 7 houses to only 2. My fingers are crossed because I really think that I would fit in well with either Foo Fighters or Hoobastank. I have no idea where I'll end up or if I'll even end up anywhere but I'm sure that if I'm lucky enough to get a bid from either of the 2 it'll be gr8..
Last edited by PearlsNPolos; 09-09-2008 at 12:12 AM.
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