[KSUViolet06]

Having a boyfriend can alter your sorority experience either positively or negatively depending on your relationship.

If he's supportive and understands that you love your sorority, and that being in it means that you aren't always going to answer the phone when he calls (because you're in a meeting or at an event) and that there are going to be times when the sorority will take precendence over hanging with him--then yes, it will work.

However, if he is the type who isn't supportive, and only thinks of the sorority as something silly that's taking time away from him, it's not going to work out.

Whatever you do, don't let your bf turn you into "That Sister." You know, the one who won't go near a date party or formal if her bf can't come, because her bf will yell at her fo it. The one who never wats to go out, but if she does, she is glued to her phone and texting him all night long. She is also the one who complains about the times/dates of LIKE EVERY SINGLE EVENT because "she was going to go see her bf this weekend" and she thinks that everything should be arranged to accomodate her "boyfriend-seeing" schedule.