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Originally Posted by AOII Angel
Who knows what she really said! Maybe this PNM just heard what she wanted to hear...that there was little chance that she wouldn't get her 1st or 2nd choice. There's always two sides to every story.
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WELL SAID.
We don't know what the PX said FOR SURE... we just know what this person has told us.
Re: others advice to ask to be re-instated... I would only advise this if you were
100% sure. Only b/c if I were in their position, and we had a girl reject our bid, then ask for it back, only to drop out again later, that would really p!ss me off. I mean, that spot could have easily gone to someone who REALLY WANTED it.
It's kind of different if you accepted the bid, and later decided it wasn't for you and dropped out. But if you dropped out TWICE that would rub me the wrong way. And I will say, sororities talk to each other throughout the year. All the other sororities will know THAT new member of XYZ who dropped twice in less than 6 wks time and it may sway their decisions if she went through rush again next year.