Believe me, MANY also did NOT get their first choice - she's probably concentrating on that. The sorority should have given her the date of initiation - if it's only been a week, it may be next week before they get it. The NM periods generally run from 6 to 8 or 9 weeks, so it would be, roughly, mid to late October...maybe early November. Encourage her to go to EVERYTHING and be friendly. As with anything, the more you participate, the more you get out of the experience. Give it at least 4 or 5 weeks.
Good luck to her!
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