hipchic-
i forgot to add---you wrote this about theta:
"Ok...well here it goes....at my school they are SO DAMN ANNOYING. They want to win all greek competitions...which is great that they have that spirit, however, they get psycho about it. They are known as the fat annoying sorority. "
How in the world can you tell someone not to comment on your single letter delta when you can say this about theta? now, this is your OWN personal opinion, so no one should say anything negative to you. but it's a two-way street. if someone says they don't like tridelta, just don't respond, because after all, this is what you will get when asking for honesty. (bTW--i'm not saying you are wrong for this opinion, maybe this is how they really are at your school, just that you need to expect posts similar to the one you left for someone else)