Like the above, did you officially terminate affiliation or did you just stop showing up for things and went inactive? Or did you take early alumni status?
Is this an IFC fraternity or a multicultural one?
As for IFC, I'm almost positive that once you terminate your membership with the organization, it's gone for good. If you took early alumni status then I don't think you can become an active member (It doesn't sound like you took alumni status though).
As for grad school, I don't know of any IFC fraternities that allow people who have finished their undergrad to join.
My advice would be to contact nationals and explain your situation and see what the course of action to take is (if any).
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