Ok, I'm confused - are you and the 40 other women going to the reception of a group that is recolonizing, or are you having presentations from NPC groups?
If it's the former, I am guessing that the reps from the national have already met you, so why are you feeling like you have to impress them? Or do you all have to rush individually - they are not taking you as a group?
If it's the latter, here is an awesome thread:
http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...ad.php?t=92588