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Old 08-31-2008, 06:29 PM
KSUViolet06 KSUViolet06 is offline
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Originally Posted by megzamillion88 View Post

My Rho Chi was very nice and encouraged me to continue on to the next day. We had to list our top 5, so I wrote down all 4 that I had (even though I really couldn't see myself anywhere). Hopefully things will get better. If not, I think I'll probably drop out. Do I have any other options then? Sorry for the rant... this is just very discouraging and I wish I hadn't put so much time and effort into researching chapters and recruitment advice and obtaining recs. :-(
Recruitment is a rough time.

If you do drop out, you are eligible for informal recruitment/COB, but I do not know if UNC-Chapel Hill has alot of opportunities for that.

Also keep in mind that if you were to drop out, you'd be a juinor next year and it would be more difficult for you to go through next year and get a bid.

I always encouage girls to stick it out at least until Preference because you never really know what you may see in one of those chapters that you didn't notice before.

I also think it's a good idea to stick it out just because you wouldn't want to wonder "what if I had." I hear alot of stories of women who drop out, then see all the new members and such having fun, and then they wish they would've stayed in recruitment and given the chapters they had left a chance.

It's your decision though, so best of luck with whatever you decide to do.
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