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Originally Posted by Senusret I
I joined match.com and my best matches are all white guys in their 50s. 
Not that I wouldn't date white people or even someone outside of my age range, but on the internet, it's very hard to determine if a white guy or old guy is only sending me a message because I'm his fetish.
Ya know?
That's why I generally stick to my own age range (or slightly above) and race, when it comes to internet dating. |
i hear you. i had a similar experience with match.com - my matches were, for the most part, older, divorced, white men who may or may not have fetishes.
but from my understanding of match.com and your profile options, were you selecting your (racial and age) preferences to match potential mates? in other words, if you left the race and age categories very broad, did you select potential matches' profiles to reflect the same, or specifically men who are into black men?
if anything, that's one way to judge if its a fetish thing or not. but you probably knew that, youre a smart guy.
