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Maybe have a heart to heart with your Pledge Chair/Officer/whatever they call the sister who is in charge of the pledge class? She's there to make sure you transition in well and should be able to give you perspective within your pledge class and she can maybe address issues within the sisterhood (tell the initiated members to be sure not to pay too much attention to some pledges and not others, etc.). And I tend to agree with your friend that said to nip it in the bud with your pledge class -- the same officer should be able to help you set up a heart-to-heart between you and your pledge class where you can explain exactly what you said above. I think you did a fine job explaining your situation and came off as really earnest and sincere. I'm sure both your pledge sisters and the initiated sisters would receive the information well (they are obviously excited that you're there!).
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