I'm not really sure I understand everything you're asking, but I'll give it my best shot.
Recruitment is a mutual selection process, meaning that both the chapters and your daughter will be deciding which (if any) sorority is a good fit.
It is not possible to attend more than the maximum number of parties on any given day. For example, when you mention that on Sunday she goes to 10 houses, the most parties she can possibly attend is 10. It is possible that she may be attending fewer than 10 parties.
All universities do it a bit differently, but generally speaking, your daughter will have a Recruitment Counselor who will explain everything to her and help her along the way.
Hope that helps!
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