[AOII Angel]

Good luck to your daughter. Don't stress so much about all of this.

1. You will never know how the chapters decide who to pick. This is membership selection which is secret.

2. Keeping your options open just means not cutting a group just because you don't think the other girls like them. If you are invited back to that group and you have an available slot for their party after accepting invitations to the groups you liked, go to that party as well. You never know how your opinion might change from day to day. We've all seen it!
3. You'd be surprised how many girls will refuse to go to a party because they decided BEFORE recruitment which chapter they want to pledge. Always go to the party if you are invited.
4. Your daughter will have to decide where she would most like to be. If she can't rank them by the end of the week, then she is in an enviable position. She'd be happy anywhere she gets a bid. Tell her to do what SHE thinks is right, not what you, her friends, her rho chi, her rho chi group members or anyone else thinks is right!