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Originally Posted by irishpipes

There were a few exceptions. I just wanted to point out that it might not be as simple as "they probably can't kick you out for not living in." I'm sure every chapter has their own guidelines about that. I would feel uneasy recommending to a PNM that a rule might not really be a rule. We don't know. I have a lot of respect for the advice that VP gives, so I was just pointing out that circumstances can and do arise where a chapter has to enforce their living-in policy. (And it's a pain in the rear when they do. )

I should have been more clear. Every NPC is bound to have different policies (and they may be different from chapter to chapter). It's one thing to say "I don't want to live in" and have no apparent reason for it when there are spaces to be filled (not what I was referring to), but I would think that at least some NPCs/chapters would consider marriage a valid reason to not live in the house. I'll edit my post to reflect that.