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Originally Posted by Kansas City
Just don't bring it up unless asked.
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A friend of mine was an active in an NPC sorority and was asked to take alumna status when she got married as a sophomore. She was so sad!
I thought it was a national policy of her NPC, but perhaps it was just a local policy....? It's worth checking out that kind of thing. In a perfect world, the campus advisor the OP spoke to would have alerted her to a potential problem, but those campus advisors aren't always up to speed on every GLO policy. (The happy ending is that she wound up as a founding mother of a new OPA chapter on her campus.)
Even if there is no policy against a married woman holding active status, I agree with the OP that playing down this important lifelong commitment is essentially a lie of omission. To find the sisterhood relationship that is right for you, those potential sisters need to know the
real you, including the joy you find in your marriage.