[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by disasterscookie

Isn't that kind of lying, if I don't bring it up? I don't want to get a bid to the house of my dreams and then have to bring up later that I am married and cannot live in.

The sororities on my campus do ask that you try to live in for a minimum of 2 years, but like I said, they are all pretty much at capacity.

Be honest about it if asked. When we had married girls come through recruitment we always noticed their rings/bands anyway, either that or we asked them something like "where are you living this year?" and they'd answer "oh I live off campus with my husband." So we knew they were married and honestly, we would find it odd if we noticed a ring and a girl tried to hide/deny being married. So I defintely wouldn't try to hide it, because if your school is like mine (not very many married/engaged girls typically going through) someone will notice at some point.

I'd also ask about the live-in policies. Every sorority at my school had a live-in requirement of at least one year. Our only excuses from living in my chapter's house were some sort of medical reason, owning a home, living with your parents within a certain # of miles, and serving on campus as an RA. Marriage was not one of them. So I think it would be good for you to ask sorority members about their live-in policies.