[ThetaDancer]

Originally Posted by carbonbeach81

One more question......Since rush week goes by so fast, I'm curious about something. What types of rush questions will the recruiters ask that will tell them you're a last-season-Kors bag girl and have no money for Europe....that you are wearing great quality clothes but buy them at Nordie's anniversary sale. We were raised to buy great items at great prices, so I hope neither party (PNM or recruiters) get the wrong impression. If some of you could please tell me what rush questions would clarify this, I sure would appreciate it! Is it terribly obvious even in the short amount of time mixing? I've read the stickies, but still wonder about this.

Originally Posted by carbonbeach81

Thanks everyone. I never believe the stereotypes, the "tent talk." Most of what I've heard has been from non-Greeks or jealous girls or guys wanting to "boast" about fictional nighttime activities. That's why I believe research is so important, and all of you gave great ideas!

Originally Posted by carbonbeach81

These suggestions are all super helpful. I also like the idea about asking a frat friend at the school which house they see you best fitting into.

When my Mom went to college ages ago they had a house that truly only recruited very wealthy girls. I've seen her yearbook and recognize last names, ones most people would recognize. She said she rushed the house and they were nice, but word was out that they had a way (even before computers?!) to find out who was wealthy and who was not. I suppose they knew even before the PNMs came to visit. So many years later that chapter at that school is no longer like that.

Originally Posted by carbonbeach81

LadyLonghorn -- If your intent is to drive a caring Mom off of GC, please be assured there are way too many gracious women here that are kind enough to answer my questions without assuming I'm a "split personality." I'm a caring Mom....not a helicopter Mom or Mom/daughter or anything else you've had the creative imagination to infer. I've fully explained my reasons for frequenting GC in another recent thread.

If the other posters want a Mom to stop posting here, please be honest with me and I'll stop. I know my daughter will get her own user name and post herself when she knows more about the specific college she's going to attend, if not well before.

Thanks everyone for listing all the colleges you're aware of in the W/SW that are active Greek schools. At this point our daughter wants to leave the southern CA area to attend college, but not at the expense of her education and career goals. She has a personal meeting set up with her college adviser this week, so that should help answer a lot of her questions, too. Thanks again!

Carbonbeach---
There is confusion because you've said several things (some of which are quoted above) that make it seem like YOU'RE the one rushing, rather than your daughter. But then you make a point of saying that your daughter is the one rushing and she has never used your screen name to ask questions...