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I agree with you, disasterscookie, that honesty is really the best policy here. I think the main concern will be your ability to devote time to sorority life. There are multiple mandatory events (meetings, campus activities, philanthropies, social events, etc). If you are sure that it won't be a problem for you, then you will (in my opinion) need to relate that to the actives. Something along the lines of "I know that there is a large time commitment involved in being a member of your sorority. I have thought that through and am ready to make that commitment." (Your own words of course). I just think that to *hope* that actives don't notice your wedding ring is not the greatest plan, because they may make assumptions that are incorrect.
I wish you the best, and please post here what happens! As an adviser I have seen a couple of married undergraduates over the years, so it is not completely unknown.
Good luck!
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