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Originally Posted by baci
I wish the young ladies would think that way, but the majority just doesn't - unless it is just the young women I have encountered.
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Nope. I encountered one too.
A PNM who would be attending Bama asked for me to write her a rec. Since I did not know her (she was referred to me as alumnae chapter president) I suggested that we meet for coffee. During the course of our meeting she proudly told me that she wanted to either be an ABC or an XYZ... both considered top chapters at Bama, and neither of which was my own organization. I so wanted to ask if I should just scrap the rec, since it didn't really sound like she would need it, but I also knew that her chances for those 2 chapters were long shots and she might just open her mind during the recruitment process.
Guess what? She didn't pledge anything, and I also never got a thank you note.;