ok, any girl who has had relationships, knows that there are mean and manipulating girls out there. I am not "wonderful" I am insecure at times, otherwise, I wouldn't have been honest and posted a question that ran across my mind. I'm sure others have thought the same things too. there are numerous reasons why girls don't get bids, but I was hoping that the reality tv and in your face mentality wasn't among the sororities and I was just asking a question....