[violetpretty]

I wouldn't say COB events would be the ONLY things appropriate for non-members, but definitely not everything the chapter does. COB events, philanthropy events, programming (maybe), and certain socials would probably be ok, but she should definitely check with her friend first. Besides, even if she were allowed to come to everything, she shouldn't overdo it by coming to EVERYTHING the chapter deems appropriate for non-members. That would be really weird.

Maybe she can hang out with some members informally, like going out to lunch with her friend and a couple sisters from the chapter. You know, normal friend things.