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Originally Posted by smiley21
Just because a sorority, who loved and wanted to see you come back, ended up cutting you does not mean they were fake. While I do not know their reason for doing so, I do know that sororities have many new girls they would love to see join them. Still, they cannot invite every single one of them. It is not possible for them to accept every girl that they want. Sororities can only take a certain number of girls.
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I guess that's just a difference in opinion. If a girl tells me she loves me and wants to see me come back, and then cuts me, then of course I'm going to think thats fake. Emphasis on the telling me she wants me to come back. I'm sorry you think that's so wrong.
I think the original poster's attitude is pretty average. Did you not prefer some houses over others when you went through Recruitment? I can't imagine anyone NOT having a bottom two sororities on their list. If I fell in love with one sorority, it would be hard for me to wear another groups letters with pride. I agree that if you can't do that, then you're better off not joining.
I'm just saying that I understand what this girl feels like. Maybe because I'm fresh off an emotional recruitment week, too.