I was one of those PNMs who believed Panhellenic when they said I didn't need recs. I couldn't think of any Greek women I knew off the top of my head and I didn't really understand what a rec was. So I forgot about it.
If Panhel had said "Recommendations are not required to participate in recruitment, but some chapters may require them," I would have at least tried.
Of 900ish girls who came through recruitment at my school, about 600 of them had recommendations for my chapter.
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