[darling1]

Black Socialite, I can empathize with your friend. SC made some excellent points. Marriage is not the be and end all. It is just one aspect of your life. It sounds like your friend needs to GET A LIFE. What I mean is, perhaps this is a good time to self reflect. See what it is she truly wants. I nice conversation with God is in order. If she truly desires to be married, then it take preparation. She needs to get herself right and ready to receive her mate. If she is just feeling unfiulfilled then maybe a career change or a change of scenery might help. pick up a new hobby, travel-stepping outside of the comfort zone might kick her spirits up a notch.

Black Socialite, you come off as someone who is on the go. Maybe you ladies can go sky diving, do an ecotour in Costa Rica, or take dance lessons.

I hope my suggestions help.