[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by snakealum

"Trust the process, you'll end up where you belong" was the mantra repeated over and over. I now feel like the general telling a mom that the battle went as planned and we won, So sorry your son got killed.

Small detour here:

I'm sorry, but likening recruitment to war is a bit much. Your daughter did not get a bid, and yes, that's hurtful to her and it's hard for you to see her sad, but there is no comparison. Your daughter is still alive.