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Originally Posted by AimHighDoorDie
although I can say that my chapter NEVER talks badly about any other chapter - we say how wonderful we all are!
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Perhaps as a group you don't speak badly of other sororities in public, but you really can't be sure that individual members are not doing it on the side. No one can ever be 100% sure about that.
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After bid day, nearly all of our new members told us what this other chapter had been saying about us, so we were absolutely sure the allegations were true.
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So, the bottom line here is that you got new members. Obviously, you were able to find women who were not influenced by what another group supposedly said against you. Isn't that what matters most?
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Originally Posted by NutBrnHair
Focusing too much on what others say can backfire on you.
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I agree. You already went through the process that is available, and I see no reason to get anyone's nationals involved over petty rumors (unless it's contributing to your having NO new members or something extreme like that).