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How about taking on a role of a "cool aunt"? Maybe set up lunch dates(even at the cafeteria), playing frisbee in the park, baking cookies, etc.; something each week, with a few girls from the new member class. Have a general invite to sisters who might want to participate in these informal new member gatherings.
You might find that it's easier to bond over an activity that combines doing and chatting. Working in smaller groups helps you figure out anything you may have in common, and also allow you to find out something new or special about each of the girls.
As the Nem Member coodinator if you can do this on an informal basis (and not step on toes). Who knows, maybe you can create a new tradition of "getting to know you" for new members. Participation is entirely voluntary, but with the NM educator's help, try to get each NM to commit to at least one event. And you don't have to do it alone. Get a few sisters who might want to help "host" these events.
Just remember to keep the total number of people around 8 so that you can still have group discussions and one-on-ones. If you end up with a group of 10 or more, break off into half groups and maybe switch partway.
Best of luck. It's never to late to get more involved!
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