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Part of the scenario is that with RFM many campuses will not make a PMN eligible for quota additions if she does not "maximize her options" and attend all the events she is invited to for that round. So if you were invited to three you should attend all three.

I am surprised that girls would be a no-show to pref. I would guess that the panhel would double check with the woman but then consider her a drop.

That is one of the issues I have when folks say Pi Chis/Rho Sigmas should not be pushy and if you want to drop you should drop. Yes and no - I still think that you should finish because you just never know. I know plenty of women who found their home at a place they did not feel 100% sure about. I also know many women who now regret dropping out and felt that they were making a quick decision at a stressful time.