Posting under a different name at home...
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I think the line is crossed like EE-BO said when the parent isn't just watching from the sidelines anymore. They're front and center - giving up the play by play of their stellar daughter/son's rush
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So, in other words - Get off the forum? You're not welcome, we don't want you here? You're a moderator - ban us!
Sometimes the parents are here because they are nervous and want a place to vent, then WE encourge them to share (and then
some relish attacking them for it). I admit that last year there were some
unattractive parents who, for whatever reason, be it anger, spite, revenge, what have you, posted nasty things after their kids were cut or didn't have a good rush (in their opinion). But, do you really want all the parents (even when we are active Greek women or men alumni) to just go away?
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I think if those young men & women really wanted their story posted on the internet, they should be perfectly capable to post it themselves. They should also be perfectly capable to ask the questions they have ON THEIR OWN.
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My son wouldn't come on this site if his life depended upon it
But, he didn't mind when I posted (post recruitment) his story,
and neither did the people who enjoyed reading it and encouraged me to post - and perhaps, in some way, the story of his recruitment can help others who might be thinking of rushing a fraternity which is COMPLETELY different than rushing a sorority.
I came on the site when my son was a senior (hence Srmom) to get information because it had been MANY moons since both my husband and I were involved in the Greek system. My son had expressed an interest, was being "rushed", although he didn't realize it at the time because we did NOT make it a deal in our house, he just thought nice guys were inviting him to go to stuff
. By getting information on this site (and from EE-BO for one) it helped with the process. I understood what was going on and felt better about what he was going through and where he ended up (special circumstances in that he pledged a fraternity that is not recognized by IFC - EE BO, in particular, shed light on that situation).
So, this is a great website - full of information, full of fun interaction, full of controvery and spirited debate - why do you have a problem with moms/dads who come here to be a part of it????