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Originally posted by James
Assuming that you all get serious relationships of your own, where you want to spend a serious amount of time with the other person, and that other person doesn't have an apartment of their own to have you at constantly, you just might find yourself to be "that person" that this thread is talking about.
Also, if you get an SO where you can constantly go over there, and thy have roomies, then no matter HOW nice you think they are and HOW much you think they love you, at least one is thinking the same things as Josh's post. If only because you aren't doing anything for them.
That is why i am more sympathetic to Josh's friend. Are you telling that none of you have either constantly been with yor SO either at your place or theirs? Even roomies that don't say anything probably don't like it much.
Also, where else are they supposed to go? Does the rent the roomate pays only buy him/her as much a life as the least of the roomates? The if none of the other roomies are really serious you can't be?
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you make interesting points, but my issue here is that she is in the room when neither he nor I are there. he went home for the weekend, and she still just came in the room like she owned the place. if he isn't here do you think that she should be allowed to hang out in the room and make herself at home even if he leaves for the weekend?