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For me, it would depend on the circumstances as most all things must. For example...Girl has boyfriend back at home, falls for the man with whom she spends all her time with at school, in a moment of weakness...she cheats, but it's based on pure emotion and not raw lust...that I label as acceptable. Occassion number two: Girl falls for guy realizing that current relationship is, though not bad in any real definable way, is not going anywhere and that person has essentially fallen out of what we'll loosely term as love for that's the word that they would use. Now, there is nothing that the person can say that is a sufficent reason to break with that person though many of us have likely experienced it, I'm sure. Now, some people are strong enough to break up with that person despite their reasoning being 'this is no longer fufilling,' some are not. The reason again for cheating isn't really lust, it's more of a new love interest that happened to occur while dating another and doesn't neccessarily mean that it'll happen again with you. Think of that old Usher song "You Make Me Wanna..."

Now if you got drunk and messed around and now you're thinking about hooking up for real, be weary, the girl is obviously wild and not very respectful of her ties...take that for what it's worth to you.

Cory