I didn't go through Miss State Recruitment, but growing up in the Deep South has taught me a few things:
1.) No matter how nervous you are, get enough sleep! Circles under your eyes will show through your makeup (especially once it melts off in the heat).
2.) I'm not an expert, but I'd suggest you take the clothing recommendations up a half-notch to a full notch. If it suggests shorts, go for a skirt (denim or khaki) that hits between fingertip length and just above the knee. Each day, go a bit more formal.
3.) Heels, heels, heels, heels. Wear flip-flops or sneakers while you roam around to each party, but outside, change into your heels and leave the casual shoes outside. Trust me, the other girls will be doing the same thing.
4.) Don't go completely "naked" jewelry-wise. A nice but simple pair of stud earrings--in the traditional place, not your eyebrows and a nice necklace or bracelet. Skip the watch, though; you'll just have to take it off. If you have them, pearls are the quintessential Southern accessory--but, only if they're real. And, no, I'm not suggesting you go buy some.
5.) Do you wear makeup? I really suggest that you do, but, being from out-of-state, you might want to take your cues from your dorm-mates. Makeup melts in our humidity and extreme heat. Go for the natural look, you don't want to look like you're going clubbing.
6.) If you can afford it and have the time, get a manicure and (if applicable with your shoes) a pedicure.
7.) Smile!
8.) BE YOURSELF!!!!!!!!!
9.) The number 1 mistake PNMs make is setting their hearts on one, two, or even three Sororities and refusing to consider any others. Do not do this. Give everyone a fair shot, you never know where your home might be!
10.) Prepare yourself for the questions. It's Southern recruitment. You could get everything from "what's your Daddy do?" to bizarre ones about wherever you are from. Believe me, the girls who ask these questions aren't trying to be mean (or exude their ignorance), they are just as nervous as you are and are simply trying to get to know you. If something they ask is really bizarre, be polite and try to be yourself and honest.
Addendum: Get those rec's ASAP. I didn't go to a school that needed them, but I've heard you need them for your school.
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