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I don't know how the rules on your campus go, but on my campus 90% of what she is up to is illegal. You should find out what the rules are if you do not know them already.
1) She neds to be a guest of one of the roommates. If she is the only person in the room, she is an intruder (for lack of a nicer word) and has committed an act for which she can be disciplined by the school.
2) All visitors (at least at my school) must meet the approval of ALL occupants. This means, if she is a horrible guest, you have the right to kick her out-- on the SPOT!
Basically, the law is (or should be) on your side. Your best bet is to tell her directly that she is not allowed in the room when her boyfriend is not there. Also, you might want to tell your roommate that you disapprove of this behavior. Lastly, you might want to let your RA (or whomever is in charge of the building) know what's up. He or she may be able to give you pointers on what to do next.
If all else fails, since you are not in violation of any rules, your roommate, not you, will have to re-locate. Trust me, I have experience with this, but that is a WHOLE other story.
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