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...and now testosterone enters the board...
okay ladies, first off i don't think it's fair to castrate this guy because he didn't want to kiss you in front of your freinds. 1, this isn't grade 8 where everyone sits in a circle and claps when two kids kiss while playing spin the bottle. He probably didn't feel confortable being around all your freinds, and maybe thinks that you would feel the same way around his. Could it be that he wants to maintain an equal separation between time spent with his freinds and your time spent among your chums?
The second part of your first post was a tough read, so i'm still a little confused with what you're trying to say. I think a lot of that could have to do with his freind from out of town. How long has he known this guy and how long have they been freinds? If he hadn't seen him in a very long time, he's probably vying to keep it as productive as possible by not having his friend be placed in an akward situation of watching a couple go at it while he tries to order a burger.
I don't know exactly how you two spend your time together before you were dating - specifically, evenings & weekends. If a typical night was spent meeting up at a bar and dispersing afterwards to your respective brotherhood/sisterhood, then is it fair to blame him for not assuming otherwise? If that is the case, then he does need to make necessary changes to be in this relationship but you may also have to accomodate some of his demands.
Give this some time, wait for his pal to leave and talk it over. If he's really your best friend (even though the topic is stupid boy) then he'll be willing to work it out. If not, then he's a crybaby who drinks like a 10th grader.
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