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Why don't you try to make friends with a few sorority sisters from different groups before you decide to commit if you're that nervous. Most sisters are pretty friendly, especially if you explain you're interested in joining, but have reservations. They might invite you to come with them to some events. We always (a fraternity) have people who are interested and if we invite them to events, sooner or later they feel comfortable enough to join.
That said, my fraternity has only ever blackballed 2 people that I know of. If there is a spot open, and you're willing to make friends fast, I am sure there are worthwhile organizations.
Also, if sororities make you nervous, why don't you become involved with other on campus groups which generally tend to be less exclusive, sometimes pretty friendly and always willing to put people to good work.
Thomas
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