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Honestly, if I were an undergrad, I doubt I'd want somebody in my fraternity who's filling a "spot". Focus on what attributes you can bring to a sorority, such as clubs you belong to, sports (intramurals or college level), neat hobbies you have and special abilities. I remember being a freshman and it seemed like the only things seperating me from the average was my associations with older girls. But then when I got involved in Kappa Sigma, they started asking me about how I was the prez of 2 other clubs, how I was a member of a third, how I ran a large fundraiser, etc. I'm sure you've got lots of attributes (including that you did your research and hopped on GC rather than just listening to randoms) that would make you attractive to other sororities.
However, if you like to "party" with Greek guys, my OPH describes them best as having a V/W syndrome. Essentially the girls they like to have fun with are not the same girls they want as a sweetheart.
Thomas
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