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my rule with dating is, if I'm not happy, or I feel uncomfortable most of the time, then there's something wrong and it has to be addressed. It sounds like you know there's something wrong. At least it sounds that way to me. You're friends have your best interest at heart and they think you can do better. Just because he's your best friend doesn't mean the relationship will work, you can still be friends afterward.
If you find yourself constantly on your gaurd or if you feel like you're the one making the compromises, or if you're just never happy, then something has to be done to remedy the situation. Relationships aren't always going to be perfect and there will be problems, but you should be happy most of the time, there should be a mutual respect and open communication between the two people.
I wish you the best of luck, and don't let anyone make this decision for you, you've got to figure it out.
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