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					Originally Posted by WVU alpha phi  I'm shocked by how many PNM's stories say they were abandoned by sisters during a rush party.  No matter how much you aren't "connecting" with your PNM, I can't imagine doing this!  I'm sure other chapters were taught, as mine was, to be nice and treat everyone well because even if that PNM wasn't a fit for the chapter, we might love their roommate/hallmate/HS friend and we don't want them to say they felt uncomfortable or rejected at our house. | 
	
 To play devil's advocate, it could be that the rushers were new sisters who just didn't understand "bumping" or hadn't gotten enough practice in rush in general.  I don't think it's always rudeness or disinterest.