[speedsters]

To be an emotional affair is worse. When I was breaking up with my ex (international long distance) because I found out he had been cheating on me for over 5 months he said, but I never slept with her to try and make the situation better. I blew up on him even more after he said that to me, because it was a serious relationship, not just a casual one. The crazy thing is he treated us both well, and the fact that the other girl and I had mutual friends and it still went on for so long and neither of us found out about each other. It is a really crazy story, but I think the best part is that the other girl and I became friends because it shocked both of us and I knew it wasn't her fault.