Sup, I know ya'll said SISTERfriends, but I hope you don't mind me answering.
1. Did you decide upon your organization of choice PRIOR to visiting GC?
Yes, I knew since I was 17 I that I want to be a member of ABC.
2. Would you let the views or beliefs of one sway your interest to another organization?
Many have tried... ALL have failed. ABC is my FINAL answer!
3. Would you let the tactics of another (member or non-member) sway your decision to become a member of an organization you really had no interest in?
No because I wanted to be a member of ABC before I met any of the members
. If somebody can be easily swayed then that is a sign that membership SHOULD NOT be for them.
4. Do you think that you would be offended if someone came to you so that you could become a member of their organization when you have clearly decided that you want to become a member of another organization?
Speaking for me personally, ALL the Greeks on my yard know I want to be a member of ABC (I had no say in this but that's cool
). And I happen to have friends in DEF and XYZ, more than I do in ABC... they may tease me because I have not obtained membership, but they respect me. However, if they were a transfer student and they didn't know, I would not be offended.
5. What does the notion that someone would try to deliberately sway your intent say about that person?
That they don't know me very well and that they haven't been to this school very long because if they did they would already know not to ask (I do mean that humbly).
6. Would you find fault with the organization as a whole or only the person?
Only the person... only the person.
7. What does that say, if anything about the person who tries to get you to follow him into his organization when that isn't really what you want to do?
The same answer as the one in #5.
8. Ultimately, what kind of person would you be to succumb and follow when you know that isn't what you want to do?
LORD help me that this incident SHALL NOT happen because if it do, then it means I have truly lost my sanity. At that point I would be non-human.
9. Could you look yourself in the mirror?
What mirror?! I wouldn't be able to look at one.
10. What does that say (if it says anything) about your integrity?
What that says is that as a person, I have not only lost my integrity, I have disrespected both the organization I truly want to gain membership in and the one I would currently be a member of (that won't happen but just saying). You can't change your mind on something like that because once you say you want to be an ABC, it is etched in stone.
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