[ASAChick]

I think that you should wait to have sex before you're married. That is what God intended it for. I will admit that I have had sex before even though I believe that it's wrong outside of marriage. The guy I had sex with I have been with for five years. I guess after awhile things just led to it, and it was hard to say no. I found out that my parents and everyone was right when saying that sex is meant to take place inside of marriage. Even though The first three years were great...we didnt have sex then. After we had sex our relationship went down hill. He became over protective and jealous...kinda fatherly. I became very jealous too. Sex just complicates things and finially destroys them. Me and my boyfriend over the past few months have stopped having sex. I think it's the best decision we've ever made. We plan on getting married within the next 2 years and we're going to wait to have sex again until then. It's really helped mature our relationship just in this short time, and know we wish we never would've had sex in the first place.