[Kansas City]

If she can sit in on the first few days just to figure out if it's something she may want to do, she could withdraw at any time (no obligation). Let her know that by meeting new people, it might make it easier for her to get a bid during an informal recruitment or make her name known for recruitment the following year if she later changes her mind. If your situation allows, you might even pay her recruitment registration fees as a family "gift". I assume this would be acceptable since the Legacy thing apparently isn't an issue.